Should I stay or should I go?

IF you are to the point where you no longer can take his disposition, have tried everything in your power, now are to the point of leaving. Don't know IF you've considered professional help or not, if you feel it could help, by all means at least try it. IF you definitely ARE mind set on leaving tho, do not wait for your children to be subjected to this way of life. They KNOW they are not living in a happy home! Do you want to continue this way of life for them?! It's NOT fair of them, they did not choose it. It's up to you to make the choice for all of you. Write down the pros & cons of leaving now. Write down the pros & cons of waiting 5 more yrs. See which side out weighs the other! IF you want to live in a peaceful home for you AND your children, you then do know what you must do to make it so. Don't accept the unacceptable! Don't settle for less. Do what you KNOW you must do & get busy on doing just that...I DO wish you the best...:)